My Childhood Web
As a child I
was surrounded by family and extended family.
I grew up with a lot of family interaction including attending family
reunions on my mother’s side of the family.
As I grew older the reunions faded away.
I often think back about the family reunion and wish they were still
occurring. Many family members touched
my life in so many ways. However, being
an only child and the loss of some grandparents early in my childhood, I chose
to write about the ones who influenced me through most of my childhood.
My father was very influential in my childhood, he
always made sure I had all my basic needs met.
He helped me with my school work and supported me in everything I
did. He did well selling Girl Scout
cookies for me at work. He made it to
where I was the top seller. We
experienced many family trips together.
He always played games and interacted with me. Still to this day we have many enjoyable
times together and I can always rely on him for great advice or just someone
who will listen.
Donna- Mother
My mother was very influential during my childhood,
she always made sure my basic needs were met.
She would help me anything I needed help with and supported me in everything I did.
She made sure I stayed active in extracurricular activities. We shopped together, roller skated together
and travelled together. Still to this
day I look forward to shopping and spending time with my mom.
Art- Grandfather
I spent a lot of time with my grandpa when I was
young as my mom and dad traveled often.
I loved spending time with him and looked forward to the stories he
would share and read to me. I still have
the story collections that he read to me.
I loved when I spent the night at his house and he would pack my lunch
and take me to school. The lunches he
packed were much cooler than what my parents would pack me. However, they were not as healthy. We spent
many hours sitting on the front porch of his house talking and waving to the
neighbors as they would walk by.
Ms. Donna- Childcare Provider
My childcare provider was there for me when my parents
had to work. My parents had to leave me
with her before the sun came up, as they had to be to work early. When I got to her house, she would tuck me in
and let me go back to sleep every morning.
She met all my basic needs and cared for me as I was one of her own. She always told me I could do anything I put
my mind to. I remember her encouraging me
to play, create and play outside. She only
allowed TV on very rare occasions. She
made the best PBJ sandwiches. I spent
many hours at her house, but always looked forward to going back the next day. Still to this day when I go back to Michigan, I always make sure to visit her.
Randee this is such a great testament of child care legacy. I use to work with childcare providers in their homes and the way that you were cared for, let's me know that this extension of home care is very much key in the lives of families and the young people that we serve.
ReplyDeleteYour rich memories of your grandparents as with Stephanie I understand are very sentimental. Grandparents teach us those little golden nuggets that may not be corporate or even political but they are rich pieces of wisdom. Thank you for extending the love of your family with us!
What a wonderful web of support you had growing up. I especially love the fond memories you have of your grandparents. Grandparents are so special in that they can teach us things that are parents know nothing about. They are a look into the past. I honestly think that people should sit and speak to the elderly more often...ask them about their own childhoods and important lessons that they learned. The fact that your grandparents were such an integral part of your childhood speaks to how well-rounded your upbringing was.
ReplyDelete~M.Bussey
It sounds like you had a "cool" grandfather. I like how you shared with us the fact that you had family reunions. I come from a big family and always wondered what it would be like to get everyone together for an event like that. Also, I think it is really sweet that you still visit your childcare provider. Working with kids I've learned that through the year their feelings change toward you. In first grade they hug and hold your hand and wave hello every time they see you in the hall. Then by the time they are in fifth grade they just stare or ignore you. I understand in a way I guess. Thanks for sharing!
ReplyDelete-Rosana C.